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Understanding Anger and Aggression Across Development: From Early Childhood Through Adulthood

Distinguishing Anger From Aggression Anger is a normal, universal human feeling. It is part of healthy emotional development and emerges early in life as a signal that something feels frustrating, overwhelming, unfair, or threatening. Anger itself is not a problem, it is information. Aggression, by contrast, is a behavior, not a feeling. And aggression can […]

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The Ununited States: Why Our Politics is a Developmental Crisis

Emotional Development Across the Lifespan—From Childhood to Adulthood to Society Children learn how to handle life by experiencing it. They grow through manageable frustration, mixed feelings, conflict, repair, and the slow work of developing emotional flexibility. But in a culture that increasingly treats inconvenience as something to eliminate, children have fewer opportunities to build these […]

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ADD/ADHD Across the Lifespan: An Object Relations Perspective on Early Gaze, Internal Worlds, and Therapeutic Change

Attention‑Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADD/ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental condition shaped by genetic, biological, and executive‑function differences. Yet the emotional and relational experience of ADHD—how it shapes self‑esteem, internalized relational templates, and the meaning a child or adult assigns to their symptoms—cannot be understood through neurobiology alone. Object relations theory, along with early eye‑gaze and micro‑interaction research, illuminates […]

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The Blind Spot You Don’t Know You Have: Why “Closing the Door” on Your Past Doesn’t Work

Many people proudly declare that they’ve “moved on” from their past. They say it with conviction, even relief, as if the past were a room they locked, walked away from, and never needed to revisit again. It’s an understandable fantasy. But psychologically, it doesn’t work.

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Grappling with Anxiety in a Challenging World

Let’s face it. Today everyone is feeling the effects of living in such turbulent and unknown times. Even the most well adjusted people can feel pangs of anxiety since it seems like the way of living that we previously knew is quickly shifting before our eyes. Most of us have coping mechanisms in place to […]

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What Entering Therapy Is Really Like (It’s Closer to Virtual Reality Than You Think)

Most people imagine therapy as talking, analyzing, or “working on yourself.” But the experience of entering therapy is far more immersive. It’s closer to stepping into a kind of virtual reality, only the world you explore isn’t artificial. It’s your past, present, and future. And for the first time, you get to walk through it […]

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It’s OK If You Think and Learn Differently

With the advent of social media, many people, including celebrities, have given voice to the fact that they don’t learn or think the way that others do. This openness has helped to remove some of the past stigmas attached to learning differences such as ADHD, dyslexia and others. What’s important to understand is that there […]

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What is Psychotherapy and How Does it Help?

It used to be that people were hesitant to seek counseling when dealing with stressful situations in their lives, even when it started to affect their overall mental health. Fortunately, times have changed and it has become perfectly acceptable to seek treatment and work with a therapist to navigate both short term and long term […]

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When Parents Can’t Face a Child’s Struggles: How Denial, Anger, Inconsistency—and Our Culture—Shape a Child’s Development

Introduction Every child arrives with a unique emotional and neurological fingerprint. Some struggle with anxiety, depression, ADHD, autism spectrum differences, bipolar disorder, or other mental‑health or neurodevelopmental conditions.

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Guiding Your Teen When It Seems Like Social Media is Taking Over

In just the past few months there have been a barrage of startling headlines about the damaging effects of social media on teens. Whether it’s distraught parents suing the companies that host the various social platforms, or concerned doctors issuing warnings, now is not an easy time to be a parent to a teen with […]

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